
communitales
communitales capture the essence of why [here] matters in the form of stories heard, experiences had and lessons learned while doing this work.
![The Troubles as my [well-timed] teacher](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f41f6593f99c90278d3a78f/1721102737529-R1J0W0AS6ZN23A7SG3CQ/PXL_20240715_192634630.jpg)
The Troubles as my [well-timed] teacher
A couple weeks ago a took a trip to Northern Ireland - on my own dime and during my vacation - to learn about The Troubles.

coming clean about my 💩y TEDx talk
It was one of the first things that I ever put on my bucket list - give a TED talk.

the L & K café
Laura and I had been meeting at Boston area cafes for weekly Monday morning brainstorms for over a month when the pandemic hit.
![why [here] actually matters | w[h]m pt.8](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f41f6593f99c90278d3a78f/1680112566981-3I92RLJGZ4MF8JIH9OKK/unnamed+%283%29.png)
why [here] actually matters | w[h]m pt.8
Shortly after that interaction with Mayor Pete, I finally met up with Christin.
![on western avenue | w[h]m pt.7](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f41f6593f99c90278d3a78f/1680067746679-R5B0FP54DVJZ2IJNKVOV/unnamed+%282%29.png)
on western avenue | w[h]m pt.7
When I arrived on Western Avenue, I was immediately swept up by the excitement of it all.
![what happens when you come back empty handed? | w[h]m pt.6](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f41f6593f99c90278d3a78f/1679551118904-2YM3URZIRQONDEXL12CD/unnamed+%283%29.jpg)
what happens when you come back empty handed? | w[h]m pt.6
I wasn’t sure what kind of welcome I would receive upon returning to South Bend for Best. Wednesday. Ever.
![on the road back to South Bend | w[h]m pt.5](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f41f6593f99c90278d3a78f/1680761915006-8JQFPUJY8J2CRR07PRAP/unnamed+%282%29.jpg)
on the road back to South Bend | w[h]m pt.5
It’s a 10 hour straight-shot from my great aunt & uncle’s homestead in rural Arkansas to South Bend, Indiana, but my travels have taught me that the best route between two points is rarely the most direct one.
![reflecting on identity, privilege and communal harm in trump’s america | w[h]m pt.4](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f41f6593f99c90278d3a78f/1680761876719-5RU4O77XYIKFTOZMBSG2/IMG_20180829_204250.jpg)
reflecting on identity, privilege and communal harm in trump’s america | w[h]m pt.4
White American men were thrust into the spotlight and put under widespread scrutiny following the election of President Trump in 2016.
![gazing inwards | w[h]m pt.3](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f41f6593f99c90278d3a78f/1679528745060-E887WJ6AMECB95KYVJSV/00100sPORTRAIT_00100_BURST20190527170854060_COVER.jpg)
gazing inwards | w[h]m pt.3
Somewhere along the way, the experience of exploring these communities and hearing the stories of the people from them, shifted my gaze inwards and led me to embrace a certain, contemplative solitude in Northwest Arkansas.
![hitching post turned home | w[h]m pt. 2](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f41f6593f99c90278d3a78f/1679528809457-I4KCAD7T8BWF0INCILT8/00000IMG_00000_BURST20190525123102160_COVER.jpg)
hitching post turned home | w[h]m pt. 2
I was staying in the annex of my Great Aunt Sue and Great Uncle Steve’s historic hitching post-turned-family home and nursery in Garfield, Arkansas, when I made the promise to Christin.
![Best. Wednesday. Ever. | w[h]m pt. 1](https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/5f41f6593f99c90278d3a78f/1679463385911-H6LH3K7SD2OFKU7QR1QB/IMG_20190605_185917_1+%281%29.jpg)
Best. Wednesday. Ever. | w[h]m pt. 1
Christin bugged me enough about attending Best. Wednesday. Ever. that I couldn’t say no…